New York Estate Planning & Elder Law Blog

Elder Law Issues with Second Marriages

Published on: January 18, 2012 | by Ettinger Law Firm

Our New York elder law estate planning lawyers understand that handling long-term planning issues can be particularly delicate when there are second marriages involved. However, it is in these situations, with blended families, when this sort of planning is absolutely critical. Many adult children have natural concern when their parent remarries. Obviously there are inheritance planning issues, and it is vital that seniors who remarry make their wishes very clear about who they’d like to receive what. Failure to do so opens the door to strong disagreement and infighting between those involved. The family glue can come undone even among blood relatives, and there are often even less ties keeping fights in check when blended families are involved.

Beyond inheritance issues, local families should also take note of the New York elder law concerns which are implicated by second marriages and blended families. Decisions about naming a Health Care Proxy and Power of Attorney in the event of disability can present some disagreement when seniors remarry.

An article this weekend in the Laurel Leader-Call referred to another issue regarding the long-term care planning problem in the context of second marriages. The story discussed two seniors who met at an assisted living facility, fell in love, and married. Eventually one of the partners began a physical and mental decline and needed to be moved to a nursing home. The couple did not realize that Medicaid could have been applied for to help support those nursing home costs. If the partner whose health deteriorated passes away, their life savings may be entirely exhausted in providing for the long-term care. As a result, the surviving spouse is often left in dire straits when his or her own health deteriorates and they have a need for skilled nursing care. What often happens is that adult children are forced to scramble in crisis mode to figure out how to pay for the care the elder needs. A range of issues are present when those adult children are step-children who may not have as close a connection with the senior.

Common Estate Planning Mistakes

Published on: January 17, 2012 | by Ettinger Law Firm

Last week an article in the Mansfield Patch listed “Five Vital Estate Planning Mistakes” made by local community members. The list touched on a few issues that each New York estate planning lawyer in our firm has seen time and again. Like history, these errors tend to repeat themselves. Being aware of the common problems is the best way to ensure you don’t make them yourself.

Of course common mistake number one is putting off estate planning efforts entirely. Passing on is usually not a topic that most enjoy thinking about. Estate plans inherently involve some considerations and preparations in the event that one is no longer alive, and so many simply avoid the idea altogether. This delay ultimately serves no purpose. As the article author remarks tough-in-cheek, “If you don’t die before retirement, chances are pretty good you’ll die sometimes afterwards.” Considering that death is inevitable, there is simply no logical reason to do no planning and risk paying more in taxes, the uncertainty of the probate process, or the potential squabbling of family members.

Second on the list was failure to consider naming guardians for one’s children. While most local residents conducting New York estate planning have adult children, planning is important for younger community members as well, particularly those who have young children. When crafting an elder law estate plan for clients, we always take into account the family dynamics involved. When young children are present it is important to make plans for those children in the event something happens to you, the parent. This is another task that is often put off, because it is not pleasant to think about orphaned youngsters. However, at the end of the day failing to name a guardian only means that the buck will be passed to some other decision maker if anything happens–usually the court. No one is better positioned than a parent to name a potential replacement in case of tragedy, and so it is always prudent for parents to do so.

Adding Charitable Giving As Part of Your Estate Plan

Published on: January 10, 2012 | by Ettinger Law Firm

New York estate planning is primarily concerned with passing on assets to family members and saving taxes in the process. While the inheritance planning portion of the effort may seem straightforward, there are many considerations involved. It is much more than simply saying that John gets the house and Jane gets the car. When done right, the process should include consideration of many issues like what legacy one wishes to leave, how they’d like their children to remember them, and what values they wish to pass on. For many families this process involves leaving some assets to a charity of choice.

A story in this weekend’s Western Farm Press emphasized how charitable giving is an important part of estate planning for many families. It was a follow up to an article that had been recently written about the value that farm families have in visiting an estate planning attorney to keep a farm alive in the future. The latest story noted that including valued charities in one’s inheritance is a helpful way do some good while saving on taxes in the process.

It was explained how using these charitable donations in combination with estate tax exemptions can go a long way to pass along assets to desired family, friends, and causes without losing it to the government. Many assets that have appreciated significantly in value can be given to charity which may allow them to avoid being eaten up by capital gains taxes. Also, retirement savings, like IRAs, can be included in estate planning efforts to benefit charity. This often helps to reduce or eliminate tax liabilities. When done properly it can increase the funds that are going to heirs while also increasing the amount provided to a charity.

Happiest Nursing Home Staff Members Work at Nonprofit Facilities

Published on: January 5, 2012 | by Ettinger Law Firm

Making the decision to place a loved one in a nursing home is no routine matter. Emotions run deep during this time, when families struggle to balance the senior’s need for close care and safety with their concerns about the quality of life available in these assisted-living facilities. Our New York elder law estate planning attorneys have helped many families with this process. We appreciate that there are usually two big questions that come up: (1) What is the best facility for our loved one? and (2) How are we going to pay for it?

In answering the latter question, New York elder law attorneys will explain that the costs can either be paid out of pocket, via use of private long-term care insurance, or through the New York Medicaid system. The former question is a bit more challenging, because so much subjectivity is involved. The answer for each family is different. The exact type of care needed, proximity to loved ones, and similar details need to be considered when choosing which nursing home is best. Of course, as a general matter, every family will want to ensure that the nursing home they chose is one free of chronic neglect, mistreatment, and abuse. Many elder care advocates have explained that when it comes to safety measures, study after study has found that nonprofit nursing homes outperform for-profit facilities. One long-term care doctor explained, “Most studies show that nonprofits do a better job of caring for patients, but we’re not sure why that happens.” This is an important consideration for families deciding where to send their loved one.

A post this week in the New Old Age blog from the New York Times recently discussed another interesting comparison between for-profit and nonprofit homes: the employees are happiest at nonprofit nursing homes. This may be part of the reason why care at these facilities is superior. At the end of the day, the quality of life for those in these facilities is dependent on the work performed by the hands-on caregivers. Therefore, how those caregivers perceive their job is likely to play a key role in their day-to-day actions. The nonprofit employees were happier overall for a variety of reasons: their ability to help set policy, more supportive managers, and availability of adequate resources.

Estate Planning Mistakes (and Lessons) of the Rich and Famous

Published on: January 4, 2012 | by Ettinger Law Firm

Most local residents will nod in agreement when one explains the importance of conducting New York estate planning as soon as possible. It is easy for most to understand the value of planning an inheritance, saving on taxes, and preparing for alternative decision makers. Yet, all estate planning lawyers know that there is a difference between recognizing the importance of a task and actually taking the time to get it done. Psychologists have found that when it comes to making the leap from knowing that a task should be completed to actually doing it, personal examples are usually the most effective motivators. It is one thing to learn about the value of planning, it is another to hear about a specific case of proper planning that helped an actual person. In fact, experts have also found that even more effective than stories of positive benefits are stories of plans gone awry. The stick is often more persuasive than the carrot.

That is where the estate planning misadventures of the rich and famous can be useful. Unfortunately, recent history is replete with stories of many well-known figures who did not take care of their affairs properly (or at all) before their passing. This week the SM Mirror ran down a quick list of some of the more well-known cases of celebrity estate planning blunders. A few included examples:

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Advocates Call for More GLBT Friendly Senior Housing Options

Published on: January 3, 2012 | by Ettinger Law Firm

Many writers have taken to calling the upcoming wave of baby boomer retirements as the “silver tsunami.” Like real tsunamis, the demographic shift is expected to have many ripple effects in communities across the country. Each New York elder law attorney at our firm has seen first-hand the challenges faced by many in our area when trying to figure out where they will receive long-term senior care and how they will pay for it. These issues are common to all local families who have loved ones about to leave the work force to enjoy time in their golden years.

However, some senior community members have even more unique concerns.

The Associated Press published an interesting article this week discussing the struggles of senior GLBT community members. Public opinion data consistently shows that the younger generation is much more open and supportive of their gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered community members. Older Americans are less approving. That is leading many gay seniors to wonder how they might be treated if they end up in a traditional nursing home or long-term care facility. One expert summarized that many of these “seniors fear discrimination, disrespect or worse by health care workers and residents of elder housing facilities, ultimately leading many back into the closet after years of being open.” In addition, GLBT seniors are much less likely to have biological family members to help them through this time of their life. Estrangement and childlessness are more common for gay seniors, making them more dependent on outside services.

Farm Assets Protected By Estate Plan

Published on: December 28, 2011 | by Ettinger Law Firm

Western Farm Press published a story yesterday reminding readers of the importance of conducting proper estate planning. The publication, geared toward those in the agricultural industry, explained that many farms had been saved that otherwise would have been split up because of savvy planning ahead of time. The story reminded readers of a basic principle that ourNew York estate planning lawyers wholeheartedly endorse. It noted that planning is important regardless of the size of one’s estate so that “if something happens to you today, your assets will go where you want them to go, to the people you want to have them.”

In the context of farms, it is particularly important to consider the tax implications of asset transfers upon death. It was explained that many farms have been lost when one party in the operation dies, leaving others unable to pay the taxes that come due. Estate taxes are hard to pay without selling the very property that one acquires. Farmers are often asset and land rich, but cash poor. That means that those who inherent a farm are often required to sell the land itself to come up with the cash needed to pay the tax bill. Estate tax issues may not be a problem for those in certain income brackets, but there remains constant volatility in the area. For many families their tax liability could change dramatically from year to year depending on what the laws happen to be at the time that one passes on.

Regardless of estate tax concerns, however, there are many basic estate and inheritance planning issues that are important for farmers to consider. The story suggests that it is helpful to think of one’s estate as in either accumulation mode, conservation mode, or transfer mode. The younger generations are often still acquiring assets, while older community members are likely to want to preserve what they have or pass it along. Estate planning helps most clearly with preservation and transfer.

Digital Assets May Seem Unimportant, But Families Will Want Access

Published on: December 26, 2011 | by Ettinger Law Firm

Modern New York estate plans require consideration of a range of issues that were unheard of even a few decades ago. Of course some of the core aspects remain the same, such as deciding how to pass on tangible assets like the house, car, and personal property. But in this digital age, our New York estate planning lawyers know that complete preparation now must take digital assets into account. Many researchers who have looked into the subject have found that even when an individual does not place any value in their own digital assets, the surviving family members usually have great interest in accessing them.

A story this week from KHAS TV explored the issue. Many community members–including a growing number of older residents–have a wide range of digital data. Interpersonal communication is tracked on Facebook, photos are stored on Flickr, articles are written on blogs, and a range of other information is stored on personal laptops. When a loved one passes on, having access to these sentimental items is something that many grieving family members deem very important. As the story explained, “those things that we sort of use as a vehicle to remember each other by, those things have now become digital.” These days many more items are viewed on a screen than a piece of paper.

But when proper steps are not taken, it is not always easy for family members to access those digital items. As many estate planners are realizing, it is increasingly important for access to these digital assets to become integrated in long term plans. Stories continue to accumulate of widows and children who are desperately searching for information about computer passwords in order to get access to important photos, videos, stories, recipes, and other information that exists only in digital form.

Home Care Workers and the Minimum Wage Controversy

Published on: December 22, 2011 | by Ettinger Law Firm

Local seniors obtain peace of mind knowing that they will be able to receive late-in-life care in an ideal setting and that the care will be of top quality. These simple goals should not be out of reach for any elder community member. However each New York elder law attorney at our firm knows that many seniors will be forced to deal with less than adequate care, often in institutional settings where they would rather not live.

Part of the problem is that many local residents will not have visited with a New York elder law professional ahead of time to plan for this time in life. Staying in one’s home while aging usually requires advance planning. However, it is not enough to merely have the aid of a home care worker–one must ensure that the worker is actually providing an appropriate level of care. A recent article from Aging Parents explained that there has been a shortage of quality home care workers. One of the problems, argues the author, is the fact that for a period these workers were exempt from minimum wage laws. When Congress passed minimum rights legislation, all home care workers were lumped into the category of exempt employees who acted as “companions.” This was the case even for workers who engaged in a wide range of physical labor helping seniors bathe, dress, use the facilities, walk, get exercise, and eat properly. Of course, it seems intuitively unfair for these workers to be forced to live in dire poverty at incredibly low wages and no overtime pay.

Fortunately, the legal error was recently corrected. The author suggests that part of the reason the law took so long to change was that many of the individuals who fill these roles have few advocates, often including women and those who are not native English speakers. Also, as a result of the prolonged period of abysmal pay, advocates are worried that there is a shortage of well-trained, capable home health care workers. The need for these workers is expected to skyrocket in the coming decades.

Fiftieth Anniversary Celebration For U.S. Senate Special Committee on Aging

Published on: December 20, 2011 | by Ettinger Law Firm

Each New York elder law attorney at our firm understands that maximizing the quality of life for local seniors requires both proper individual planning and common sense elder law policy proposals at the local, state, and federal levels. On the planning side, all local residents should visit with a New York elder care lawyer to prepare for disability, save taxes from Medicaid costs, and deal with similar issues. When it comes to policy, it is helpful to stay up to date with changes that are being proposed which may affect the lives of seniors. One of the key governmental bodies related to these issues is the U.S. Special Committee on Aging. This Senate committee has been at the center of all important federal elder law issues over the past half century.

Last week the National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys (NAELA) issued a special proclamation honoring the 50th Anniversary of the U.S. Special Committee on Aging. NAELA, a nationwide group of elder law attorneys, also co-sponsored an event in Washington D.C. honoring the committee’s achievements.

The Special Committee was first created in 1961 as a central national clearinghouse to discuss and deliberate on a wide range of issues that affect senior citizens. Over the years the committee has been involved in any number of senior issues, from health care problems and elder financial exploitation to retirement security and nursing home abuse. In recent years the Special Committee on Aging has led the way in passage of the Elder Justice Act, Older Americans Act, and a wide range of issues seeking to improve the care at long-term skilled nursing facilities. Last year the committee brought national attention to senior housing issues during its hearing entitled “Continuing Care, Retirement Communities: Secure Retirement or Risky Investment?” In recent years the Committee served as the center of other important debates such as during the hearings “Exploitation of Seniors: America’s Ailing Guardianship System” and “Sound Policy, Smart Solutions: Saving Money in Medicaid.”